Re: so the **** hit the fan, …
If you did not realise this, then you don’t have a fair idea of what is expected in a nursing home. You should have known what you were signing up for. Nursing encompasses all of those things. A nurse or a caregiver in a nursing home knows that cleaning bedpans and wiping tushies are part of the deal.
Not every kaamwali signs up for washing people’s undies. It is not the standard of behavior in the east. The STANDARD is what is socially and generally acceptable. In the kaamwali association (if there is such a thing), washing undies would be looked down upon. In a muslim country where such things are
A) ignored in general ie topics pertaining to sex and sexual relations
B) considered “unclean” ie menstrual blood , bodily fluids making a person na-paak for namaz
It is understood that you do not foist these personal items over to someone else. You act responsibly and do it yourself
I thought that the **DIY concept was fairly common in the west? **Why then, do you claim that:
And lastly, when in Rome. Nadz is no longer in the west. She needs to get with the program if she wants a happier, less troublesome life.