so the **** hit the fan, ....

[Captain_Obvious]

Re: so the **** hit the fan, …

@nadz123

so my mil walks into my room and tells my husband she wants to discuss me, with him as well. she starts venting about how i shouldnt give the kaamwali my undergarments to wash as its disgusting and the kaamwali apparentlydid mil`s besti about this, and said she wont wash it and why cant you samjhaa your bahu.,.

mil was angry, she waited for husban d to be in room and decided to talk to both of us about this. she then started doing a big crying scene when she saw how my husband didnt think it was a big deal and why was the kaamwali making a big fuss and why cant the kaamwali come and tell ME this why does she always tell mil.

**mil began crying, she said im not ur naukar ( shes never ever done anything for me, dnt know whhy she thinks i think shes a naukar), how i should say sorry to her for her embarrassment at the hands of the kaamwali and that ive never apolgised to her about how sharmindaaa she has been made to feel. **

alsi she indirectly said its against OUR VALUES about the whole underwear thing. how people chup chup ke khudi saaf karke they dont give to the naukar to clean.

in my defence i told her - they were clean - not dirty, i WASHED THEM ALREADY but i wanted them to be spun in the wahsing machine too…she didnt need to CLEAN HERSELF. mil didnt bveleive me. she never does. and then she mentioned the bedsheet once had blood on it - I TOLD HER, it was the panadol for infants, in pakistan, its a red colour. it went on the bedsheet because my 6month old spilled some. kamwali thinks its blood and decided to make a big hoo haa.

anyway mil cried and cried…venting and shouting and then walked off.
husband took my side, which made her cry even more.

i dont udnerstand the issue. can someone tell me whats going on is this a big deal??

does anyone else in pak feel underwear is a big deal for the naukar…i mean they clean the mens underwear no issue.

feeling frustrated since that day.

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