Re: so the **** hit the fan, …
I don’t think there’s any point in talking about whether or not the kaamwali SHOULD be washing undergarment. Nadz is living in her MIL’s house where the MIL makes the rules. The kaamwali is employed by the MIL. This particular kaam wali doesn’t like to wash other women’s underwear…Nadz already had this info. b/c she complained about Nadz’s sister. The MIL is ok with the kaam wali NOT washing underwear. Whether its right or not…that’s the situation. There is nothing Nadz can do to change her MIL or the kaamwali’s mind about this.
Umm…the same way countless other women manage to do it? I know quite a few stay-at-home mom’s with small children (including one of my best friends who has THREE kids that’re 6 and under). They all manage to cook, clean, grocery shop, do dishes/laundry etc. I’m sure it’s not easy for them…but since they don’t have the luxury to hire a “kaamwali”…they get it done.