so the **** hit the fan, ....

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re: so the **** hit the fan, …

@starberry1

It don’t think the underwear is that big a deal if it is clean, although as said above, some kaam wali have different tasks that they are willing to do.

I am more shocked at your MIL making a huge hoo haa over this infront of your husband, that was definitely not necessary.

She knows her MIL
She knows the kaam wali
She knows how this family works
Why does she keep giving them reason to critique her?