so the **** hit the fan, ....

STA · September 7, 2012, 5:00pm

Re: so the **** hit the fan, …

Thanks people.

I put up certain threads to see a reaction. if the reaction is that nadz you are wrong in abcd, atleast i know where i am. sometimes i react differently to how i SHOULD react. so now i guess mil may have had a point with the underwear issue. yet i also know shes a drama queen and its been reinforced by guppies. atleast i know im not totally paranoid and making it all up.

secondly, its not about doing the work urself. life in pakistan isnt the same as the west. I lived alone with husband before kids, for around a year before we moved back to parents. in that year i did everything. myself. of course i would have.
however here, you get paid help, to do almost everything. so if shes being paid to do it, why should i do it just because i can.
im sure david beckham etc all can clean their own underwear, yet im sure they get someone/ or whatever to do everything, and literally everything FOR THEM despite them having 2 arms and 2 legs and could have done it themselves. these people are PAID to do it and if they dnt wana be called naukar and prefer employee…then act like a bloody employee, who pretty much does whatever employer asks. its pART OF THE JOB. cleaning underwear? i know plnty of kaamwalis who do.

and yes, i appreciate the advice. although many replies seem to go off tangent and just insult me. thanks. :k:

they make your phun. did not mean offend you. most of them are in worst condition than yours. but they dont have *botha *like you to post issues over here.