Re: So she is in a fix now.
We happened to meet the guy only once: at their valima event. He seemed quite reasonable. She never complained about anything negative in him. Its just that maybe he wants all her attention for himself. When you love someone you tend to be possessive and jealous.
Now when we tell her to keep away she argues that two days in a week is already not that much keeping in view the strong emotional attachment of the family. I hope she doesnt argue like that with her husband anyway. Well they havent talked about it in open as yet. She has observed her husband being very clearly displeased now when they go to see her parents and she is upset about it. She says she cannot simply give up on her parents if her husband doesnt like it. We have suggested her to talk to him about it in a polite and friendly manner so that she could know if anything serious was upsetting her husband anyway.
Maybe it’s just me, but I don’t think a girl going to see her family twice a week or more is anything for the husband to complain about. Unless there’s something more to it that I haven’t read/understood here, I don’t think she’s being unreasonable.