So really what if a bride is fat?

bigfatindianwedding · January 20, 2012, 9:19pm

Re: So really what if a bride is fat?

I am horrible at losing weight, the least determined and I do keep hearing I am gaining weight, gaining weight, gaining weight …

My height is 5 3" & my weight 66kg. I am just above borderline BMI. I am worried about the weight but the least bit determined. When I know I have to lose I end up eating more and eating all sorts of wrong food like Pasta, rice, roti, junk food, all calories-full foods. I am not too much of a fan of veges or fruits so I end up with chicken mostly and add veges to it for a decent amount of healthy intake.

I have 3 months to the wedding & with the routine I have I am expecting not to lose much specially because I don’t really bother watching myself much. I eat every wrong food and then I go .. OMG I shouldnt have eaten it!

So what if I remain fat, I’d look like a fat bride. Fine, I’m a fat bride .. so what

My dear,

You are going to become a bride and enter a wonderful and sometimes scary part of life. Reflect upon the sanctity of marriage and new adventures.

You are not fat, you are beautiful. You will be gorgeous on the day you get married.

Forget the diets and fads and the low-carb, no-carb crap. Wedding planning is stressful. How about take a walk everyday with friends for 30minutes? Discuss everything but planning and use it as a time to rest your soul and be rejuvenated. You may only lose a couple kilos, but you will feel so much happier with yourself.

The world is full of status-quo and expectations. Take a deep breathe, and tell all that to bug off.

**Repeat with me, I am going to be a beautiful bride.

I am going to be a beautiful bride.

**And you know what, send me your wedding photos and I’ll feature them.

Hugs and wishes,
Preeti