diwana
May 29, 2010, 5:28am
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I would say if you have never been lost and never failed, you have never really lived your life. That is one result you get from questioning authority; confusion and likely failure. But that shouldn’t stop you. You know how they say you fail when you stop trying? Yeah. You do fail when you stop trying to find your answers.
As far as being your own leader is concerned, I take that to mean taking a 100% responsibility for yourself and your life; not relying on other people to make you happy, to make your life worth living, to bring you enough money etc. Again, not saying that we can exist without other people, and being the lonely, vulnerable humans we are, we need people around us . But that does not mean that I will die without the other person. It is extremely difficult to take responsibility for your own life and be your own leader, much more difficult than following others.
100% responsibility also does not mean that you exist in separate spheres. It means willingness to make yourself happy and taking responsibility for the relationships that you have created.
Wah!
I think in the past I did not agree with one or more of your posts…do not remember when and what they were about but ‘curious lady’ this is another great post of yours.
Bravo! Agree with the sentences and choice of words again …
Content of discussion we may only ‘slightly’ disagree but method of description is very good.
