Re: So much for bashing....
Grand parents teach many good things to grand-kids, they are blessings to the family and all of a sudden become intruders to privacy for some?
Majority of them actually are happy to see the couple making efforts to make a living and pursuing their career. They do offer help and even spend their money on grand-kids.
I was just talking to someone over phone who lives with his parents. His father is diabetic and sometimes wants a little snack or something at late evening. The girl is a homemaker and has a little girl of one year old.
His wife is in to arts, making good artistic items, paintings etc. for exhibition and sale.
She does not wants to make a snack for her FIL late night because she has ONE child!
Same child she leaves with him and MIL when she is engaged in her 'creative' activities, or goes to exhibition. And it is the In-laws house they live in!