So much for bashing....

diwana · February 5, 2010, 9:04pm

I would want to live with my hubby only in the beginning for at least a few years. But I would never MIND having his parents around. Some men really are touchy about how their wives treat his parents.

and secondly, even though in Islam, there is no compulsion to actually take care of in laws, but for a better society I think the benefits do outweigh the problems.

**And most importantly, do you want to imagine your ownself say 40 years from now, living all alone in an apartment or been thrown away in some miserable old home? with your grandchildren telling you **

**‘mom says, you are too much of a nuisance to look after when you are around’ **

This time would come on us too. We would see how much would we crave for independence and privacy THEN when we would actually have ample amount of it :p’

SO my point. A little trouble in the beginning can save a lifetime of troubles later, esp during your frail years !

So basically, what goes around, comes around!