So much for bashing....

[Maham]

I thought there was no need to do all these calculations n reasoning to be with family :(. Unfortunately this is what people have become. Very Sad.

And before people jump at me saying oh why shud we live with hubby’s parents, why cnt the hubby live with our parents…blah blah. Well that’s cuz that’s the way it was always suppose to be, this is the way it works out better. So LIVE WITH IT

@X2

living close to inlaws has benefits, children getto see grandparents more and develop a better bond, You have trusted people who kids can hang with so u can have some couple time without worrying about babysitter background checks etc.

then having elders around for eid and ramadan means something else. and lastly, the fact that you are more able to be of their assistance in even small things is a sawab.

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Well Said.