So much for bashing....

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@X2

what is the hue and cry about parents not being able to spend time with their kids?

after a kid is 4-5 and starts going to school, how exactly is a stay at home parent going to spend time with the kid? the kid aint there..will come back in the afternoon, parents come home afternoon as well.

then people will say but the workign mother arrives home tired because she works so hard, but then they are the same people who will say a homemaker works just as hard as a professional, which would then mean a homemaker is just as tired when kids come home as the professional.

amusing really.

hadnt thought of it from that angle.. but thank u! good point

some more points to remember:

1. a working mother is not a bad mother
2. a working mother still loves her child just as much as a house mother
3. the kid(s) are jsut as happy, if given enough love and attention.. and this does not mean buying them toys out of guilt
4. just cus a female works, doesnt mean she hates her inlaws
5. as a matter of fact, not every female hates her inlaws and doesnt want to live with them… I certainly love their company and wouldn’t mind having them around at all. I like the fact i have someone to talk to.. someone to keep the blessings rolling in the house
6. if u want proof that a child can be happy with a working mother, come and see my child. She’s living proof of a very happy child, Mashallah se