So much for bashing....

hadnt thought of it from that angle.. but thank u! good point

some more points to remember:

1) a working mother is not a bad mother
2) a working mother still loves her child just as much as a house mother
3) the kid(s) are jsut as happy, if given enough love and attention.. and this does not mean buying them toys out of guilt
4) just cus a female works, doesnt mean she hates her inlaws
5) as a matter of fact, not every female hates her inlaws and doesnt want to live with them... I certainly love their company and wouldn't mind having them around at all. I like the fact i have someone to talk to.. someone to keep the blessings rolling in the house
6) if u want proof that a child can be happy with a working mother, come and see my child. She's living proof of a very happy child, Mashallah se :p