It is hard to understanding when we tried to understand things without understanding the cultural norms.
I am living 1000s of KM a part from my son, one day when he has a wife most likely going to stay at same place with her, and i would be minding my own business some other part of world.
But when a day come, and i need him, he need to stand up for us, if that means Sacrificing so called privacy so be it.
It is some kind of social commitment we have between children and parents (now we are only talking about strictly our culture).