I have discussed all this with my fiance and he already lives separately since he works in a different state. I don’t think diplomacy is always a good idea, it can be deceitful and dishonest, however, it’s always good to be tactful.
My inlaws aren’t demanding but I still prefer living independently with my husband not under his parents roof.
I wouldn’t want my sons to bring home their wife to live in my house. If they actaully want to, I woud make a seperate portion for them or something like that but I would never convince my kids to stay with me after they get married.
Why do sons have to take care of their parents and not daughters? I have no problem in doing whatever I can for my parents and I am sure my brothers will too. I will never stop my husband from taking care of his parents but taking care doesn’t necessarily mean living with them unless they have certain medical condition that requires constant supervision.
My fiances parents are in their 60’s and are totally capable of living on their own. They have kids who live nearby but they don’t live with them.
Do all old people require nursing home?