Re: So leave them, [O Muhammad], for you are not to be blamed.
And it is not for a soul to believe except by permission of Allah , and He will place defilement upon those who will not use reason.
[10:100]
**And most of mankind will not believe even if you desire it eagerly. **
**[12:103]
عطف على جملة أفأنت تكره الناس لتقرير مضمونها لأن مضمونها إنكار أن يقدر النبيء - صلى الله عليه وسلم - على إلجاء الناس إلى الإيمان لأن الله هو الذي يقدر على ذلك
**This is joined to the Verse “Then, [O Muhammad], would you compel the people in order that they become believers?” [10:99] to reassert its subject matter because the subject matter is to deny that the Prophet (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) had any power to compel mankind to Imaan because it is only Allah who is able to do that.
Al-Tahreer Al-Tanweer]
قوله تعالى : وما أكثر الناس ولو حرصت بمؤمنين ظن أن العرب لما سألته عن هذه القصة وأخبرهم يؤمنون ، فلم يؤمنوا ; فنزلت الآية تسلية للنبي - صلى الله عليه وسلم - ; أي ليس تقدر على هداية من أردت هدايته
Imam Al-Qurtubi writes in his Tafsir
He (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) thought that the Arabs would believe when they asked him about this incident (of Yusuf) and he informed them. Then this Verse was revealed as a consolation to the Prophet (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) meaning that you do not have power over the guidance of the person whose guidance you intend.
**Not upon you, [O Muhammad], is [responsibility for] their guidance, but Allah guides whom He wills
[2:272]
Perhaps, [O Muhammad], you would kill yourself with grief that they will not be believers.
[26:3]
**Imam Al-Baghawi writes in his **Tafsir
( لعلك باخع نفسك ) قاتل نفسك ، ( ألا يكونوا مؤمنين ) أي : إن لم يؤمنوا ، وذلك حين كذبه أهل مكة فشق عليه ذلك ، وكان يحرص على إيمانهم ، فأنزل الله هذه الآية
**This was when the people of Makkah denied the Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) and that became very hard upon him and he desired eagerly that they believe. Then Allah revealed this Verse. (Note the Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) desired eagerly that people believe but since only Allah has the power to guide to Iman - guidance of Tawfeeq - they would not believe unless Allah wanted them to believe)
Imam Al-Tabari writes in his Tafsir
حدثنا الحسن ، قال : أخبرنا عبد الرزاق ، قال : أخبرنا معمر ، عن قتادة ، في قوله : ( لعلك باخع نفسك ألا يكونوا مؤمنين ) قال : لعلك من الحرص على إيمانهم مخرج نفسك من جسدك ، قال : ذلك البخع
Qataadah said it means perhaps you because of your desire that they believe are going to cause your soul to come out of your body.
(This is how eagerly the Prophet (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) desired that the people become believers but Allah guides whom He wills and the Messenger does not guide whom he loves.)
And there it is. Only Allah gives Guidance to Imaan and not the Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) or anyone else. He (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) only calls to the straight path. He (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) guides (guidance of explanation) to the straight path but only Allah gives the Guidance to follow that path - guidance of Tawfeeq.
And when the Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) can only call to the Truth and only Allah can make one accept the Truth, then I am nothing. I only call to the what is true and agreed upon and only Allah can guide vroom in this respect. May Allah guide him and his likes and give them more knowledge. Ameen.