Not just prevalent in desi folks, correct… but I am just looking from the desi perspective at this point.
Hareem, her concerns are somewhat along the lines of what Gr8Heera mentioned in his post plus more:
porn, openness, drugs and alcohol, she says you can’t trust people, boring, schools aren’t good, jobs don’t give perks and benefits like car with driver, you have to do groceries and iron your clothes yourself, no servants, maid are too expensive, houses are not nice, people complain if you make noise, don’t get to attend weddings as much, groceries are not halal, gosht smells, desi retaurants aren’t good, no jewelry shops, desi clothes are too expensive… do you want to hear more 
