My parents broke my rishta off on my say-so. It just wasnt working out between us and we didnt see eye to eye on a number of things especially career and children. Plus his family were very traditional and we arent. We used to get along so well but the arguments have started getting worse and really crude. I just made the decision that I cant live with someone who is so controlling and unwilling to compromise.
I feel like Ive been hit by a bus because he was such a nice person and I feel like I gave him alot of grief which I will be punished for. It's just sad that it didnt work out and I keep getting upset about it. I know time is a great healer but the wound is too big right now.
I feel like there is no one else out there but my parents keep reassuring me that there will be many. Although we argued so much, there were many times when we we understood each other very well.
So, no wedding in July and no move to Canada (which I was really looking forward to) :'(
Has anyone else been through this? Were you able to find someone better?Did you ever look back and say "I made the right decision?" because right now I feel like I didn't.
If you felt that it wasn't going to work out and that your fiance had trouble respecting your most basic of wishes, then you did well to break it off, as it likely wouldn't have worked out in the long run.
There are a whole lot of fish i the sea; get out there and meet them before somebody else catches 'em.