So....I'am single now

[Sara516]

@CM

I for once will be constructive. You know what you need to do? You need to get a tub of ice cream and dig into it. Or whatever will give you a sugar high for now. Then I would highly recommend a good old cry. Followed up with moping, sulking and generally being depressed. Hit rock bottom - till you are sick and sad of being sad.

The number one thing I have seen with my female friends is that they try to act like everything is normal even after such a serious commitment where there are dreams and mutual aspirations. You lot aren’t guys. A good old pep talk and getting you hammered on drinks or nihari will not work.

The first thing you need to concentrate on is yourself. Focus on what makes you happy. Do whatever you please. Mope. Don’t shower, wear the same dirty clothes. Don’t care. Stay in the funk till you can’t stand it anymore.

Don’t cover it up. Don’t cover up your feelings.

This is pretty good advice that can be applied to most situations.

But tell me, can guys just “get over it” witha good pep talk or getting hammered?