Re: So....I'am single now
You had very valid reasons to make the decision you did. I think we've all had to make decisions like that in our lives, whether relationships or work or personal decisions or whatever. Some decisions just are not clear cut.
But, you have posted very valid reasons for breaking it off. You were looking out for yourself, and yes, you might have had some understanding with him...but there are lots of people in your life that you can relate to and connect with, and he isn't the only one. You still have a strong support system.
And yes, you are a SMART and NICE girl, you will find someone likewise. Definitely, never marry someone who gets crude in his arguments, or isn't willing to compromise. He might agree with you on some things, but on other things, he will do whatever he can to get his way and you will end up suffering. And guess what? He's a desi boy. His parents raised him to not care for women. So you would have been screwed.
:)