And what I said was not much different from that IMO
So as long as the bahu is living with the inlaws in the same house she has got some responsibilities whether it is written black and white in Islam or not. If our desi bahus can demand the same amount of gold and bari (as jehaz) for the inlaws daughter (yes I have seen examples of tht here on GS!) then I think they should start thinking of their PIL as parents only and not inlaws.