Hmm .. How about you read my very first post instead of jumping to your own conclusions. Obviously you are not getting my point at all. There is no where in my post that I indicated or said that women should be treated as animals or whatever it is that you think I am saying!
My first post was solely about being good to your PIL whether it is demanded in Islam or not. Just like your first post was about Islam given u the freedom to not help your PIL because it is not mandatory! And I simply compared it to the stuff which is farz upon us yet we dont do it, so why are we so fast on picking the things which demands nothing of us!
Edit: Ps.. I think we are both talking in very part directions
