…after reading Nadz’s thread.
Correct me if I am wrong lekin saas susar ki khidmat karna bahu ki Islamic responsibilities mein nahin hai. She doesnt have to massage her inlaws, cook for them, live with them if she doesnt want to. And no one will question or penalize her for it if she chooses to live her life according to her God given rights.
If she does it out of the goodness of her heart…thats a favor being done for hubby…not her job. Most women think its their job because our society looks at a bahu like a new naukrani in the house but none of it is her responsibility.
Jab humaray sar pe Islam Islam bajaya jata hai ke larki ka kaam hai ghar ko sambhalna, khana pakana, saas susar ki khidmat karna, etc…to larki apne shauhar ko Islam kyun nahin sikha sakti…ke its her right to be home, not have to work, have all of her bills paid, a naukrani if she is too tired after the kids to clean, payment for taking care of his children and a separate home away from inlaws?
Why are our girls so naive? Why dont they educate themselves about their rights in Islam?
Disclaimer: this is not directed at anyone…just my own thoughts
bs, …
what a girl wants:
and then you also bring islam to define your responsibilities of taking care of elders.. certainly some of you go back to parents home rightly !