Islam becomes an issue when men use it to keep a woman at home. Like ghar ko sambhalna aurat ka kaam hai…bachon ko dekhna aurat ka kaam hai…shauhar ko dekhna aurat ka kaam hai…aur saat mein khamoshi se inlaws ko bhi daal diya jata hai…ke unki khidmat karna bhi tumhara kaam hai. Aur vo larki bakri ki tarha moon hila ke kaam karna shuru kardeti hai. Because she feels outnumbered and doesnt know what else to do.
When its used like that (which it is) to push a woman to do something…then she should be able to bring Islam up as well and say…“speaking of Islamic rights and responsibilities…did you see that house for sale the other day? I feel like exercising my Islamic rights right about now too”.