So, yesterday I tried calling him many, many times but every time I called, he wouldn’t answer or would keep on disconnecting. So i had no other way than to send him sms message & breakup but the surprising & most irritating thing is that, even then he doesn’t respond back :(. I don’t care about him anymore but i just want him to reply & agree to the breakup, but nothing from his side :(. I just need the closure from his side but he doesn’t respond at all. And his this behaviour is tempting me to send him SMS messages again & again which iam myself not liking it now but what to do
Pls help me how to get over him & how to move on?
He did too bad with me! Will be get punished for this?
It's cuz he was a turd who was taking advantage of you and never cared for you in the first place. Welcome to adulthood, where it's every man for themself.
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Go find something fun to do with your life, chanda, and quit the GEO TV/ARY TV type dramas with boys. Just be yourself. Eventually someone will find you, respect you, and marry you properly.
"Closure" is not something you always get with the end of the relationship. With or without his acknowledging the end of the relationship, it's still over. Accept that you won't get closure AND you don't need it - your life won't end without it. And then move on.
do you want him to write you back '' When we were together ,You always said you'd die for me... ...Now that we've broke up I think it's time You kept your promise ! ''.
Just move on - coz whether you do or not , bloody life does that !
Keep some izzat for yourself and stop contacting him. He will never respect you if you keep acting like you need him in order to breathe. What was the point of all those phone calls? One phone call and/or one voice/text. That’s enough. You look like you cannot figure out what to do with yourself. You want to break up but you still want to keep in touch? That makes no sense.
A breakup means moving on with your life in a separate direction…so do it. Who the heck cares if he agrees to it? He doesn’t have to. Even if he said he doesn’t want to break up…where does that leave you? Back to your previous threads?
You erase him from your life…completely. Its over.
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Stop obsessing over him. Consider yourself lucky you don't have to spend the rest of your life with him. If you are wishing he gets punished here is the best punishment- be indifferent.
Contact a lawyer to whip up a 320 page "Closure Agreement". Before he signs it make sure you he is clear on all the condition precedents to the agreement, specifically a text acknowledging the break up SMS received from you.
You did not become so attached to the guy in 1 day. So you're definatley not going to "get over him" and move on in 1 day either! You need time. The situation is VERY new, and your feelings are still very intense. I know it seem impossible right now but with time, it does get better. But you also have to be strong.
Keep yourself busy. Focus more on school, go spend as much as as you can with your friends/family. If you don't exercise already....then start working out. Find some new activity to keep you busy and get you out. Example: take a class to learn something that interests you (ie. cooking, dance, gardning, something technology related etc.).
If you keep yourself busy.....as each day and week goes by....your feelings will become less intense.
Wear long baggy pajamas and eat a tub of ice cream in your bed, while listening to sad songs with a box of kleenex close by, while you rip up his pictures. You can thank me later.
which iam myself not liking it now but what to do 
