Being open and intimate

Re: Being open and intimate

I think the lack of communication comes with spouses not spending enough time with each other. They rather be in social gatherings every Friday and Saturday night at tikka parties instead of taking time out for each other. Also, many couples get married and think everything will fall into place automatically not realizing that each person is a unique individual with a different thought process, different expectations. We just keep waiting for the other to prove themself and never take the steps to do it our selves.