Alhumdulillah I’m glad it worked out for you, inshallah may Allah keep you both happy together always.
But just a note for anyone else in this situation: it is an Islamic right for the boy to meet and see the girl and vice versa before marriage. It is also a right of both parties involved to speak and discuss different matters together while under chaperone. Yes, parents have their children’s best interests at heart but if their children are old enough to get married then they have every right to choose their own spouse. It isn’t going against parents or being disobedient.
The prophet pbuh also recommended that you meet your spouse-to-be.
You’re allowed to see him and even talk to him according to Islam.
So ask your parents about it, you can talk to your mother.
One other perspective is that seems like you don’t trust your parents decisions. Which means if you were given the power to see future and choose your parents when you were born you wouldn’t have chosen these parents knowing the fact they’ll do this to you when it comes to marriage.
how did the guy agree to this ? is there somehting wrong with him like a deficiency or something ? are your parents trying to sell you or something ? u better find out n fast
i have done istikhara , i was having problem in taking decision whether to take admission in MS, or llb or do css or job … i was attracted to do css then i did istikhara and i see a car infront of me iam not confirm abt that the color of car was black i think so 50 50 so whats the result iam confused?
Ok 12342, I think what you need to do is open up a new thread and instead that you are posting the same post abruptly. so let me help you and open up a thread for you, you can follow it up there.
If your parents can’t trust you to even talk, then what do they expect will happen after marriage? I am pretty sure that hanky panky would be involved if you are having kids.