So,How to proceed...?

[noor321]

Re: So,How to proceed…?

@S02

Too many women hide behind the “my parents are so strict” excuse and do not take responsibility or ownership of their lives. It is part of their upbringing, but it is not acceptable. If they are old enough to get married, they are old enough to behave like women, rather than girls. It is not easy in many cases of course, but you have to try.

If my parents ever try to do that there is no way I would agree to it. Even if it causes world war 3 in the house I would because at the end of the day I’m going to be living with that guy not them, ME!!! If I’ve given my parents the right to find someone for me and arrange a marriage then I also should be given the space to decide if that person is right for me. LOL and the sad thing is that it happens in well-educated homes as well. If you’ve let your child pick practically everything in their life, such as clothes, what they want to eat, etc then why are they not consulted in the most important decision of their lives. If you are so sure about the choice you’ve made for your child then there shouldn’t be any hesitation in letting them meet.