Re: So how many of you have really felt love, true love?
Ok so how many people who get arranged marriages are deeply in love, and want to spend the rest of their life together, before they marry? That will happen with time.
How can you fall madly in love by meeting someone a few times with their dad sitting close by? Give your head a shake. Obviously the love will grow after the marriage, but you can’t expect to be madly in love on the day of the nikah.
In Pakistan usually the guy and girl will just meet once and their parents will arrange everything, do you mean to tell me they are “in love the day of the wedding”.
Its totally normal and healthy to want to have sex with a woman, Islam encourages you to marry when you have these feelings and can afford it. Otherwise you will be tempted to commit Zina, esp in the West when it is so easy.