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^ fine 
waise i just wanted to know bcoz I had some spare luddos sitting around (koi baat raha tha 
) and I wanted to further baat them out of khushi.
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abhay khud he kahoo tum apnay ladoo 
…apun ras malai, rasgullay, gulab jamun khata hai 
ps. us khusi per ager tum ladoo baant rahi hoo to 
to app ladoo bun-nay ke had ko par ker chuki hain. 
rasmalai paish ke jayea
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I dont post here much but this just made me laugh. Aap kis saddi mey rehti hai, and do you honestly think the girl will like it if someone she saw at work went to her parents and asked for her hand in marriage? And what makes you think this guy wants to marry her, hes just showing interest in her, not necessarily trying to make her his biwi!
LOL agreed....i was about to say same
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^ arey tou tumhari pedaish peh tumhe thorhi mitha’e mille gi
I was gonna baaNt the luddos to everyone else coz I personally ain’t a fan
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Did that guy even mention he was Muslim, or finding out the Islamic way to do this? Also, approaching his brother is only going to result in a phadda, bigtime!
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Did that guy even mention he was Muslim, or finding out the Islamic way to do this? Also, approaching his brother is only going to result in a phadda, bigtime!
Good point. My views are obviously colored by Islamic principles.
Ok so if we take Islam out of this, then I would suggest doing what my non Muslim work colleague did when we were having lunch in a restaurant while on a business trip. A particular waitress caught his eye, and at the end of the meal he grabbed the check to pay for all of us. It seemed a bit odd because our party of 4 included the Director, who usually paid for meals. Afterwards it turns out that my colleague wrote something on the back of the check:
"My mind could not stop wondering about you. I would ask you out in an instant, if my boss was not in front of me. Call me at xxx-xxx-xxxx even if it is to tell me that you are not single"
I am completely paraphrasing the small note. Anyways, he didn't get a call in the next three days we were in town. Only after we had gone back home, she did call and only to tell him that she was seeing someone. My colleague was disappointed but still kept in touch over the phone. Eventually she ended the other relationship and she started seeing Mr. Perseverance on a long distance basis.
It was pretty surreal seeing her visit our offices because we all knew about her from our colleague. Besides how often do you have a waitress that served you lunch 8 months ago on a business trip, walk into your office?
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lol thats an interesting story... thanks for sharing!
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what ya mean here? 
IC ??? 
ps. thanks for liking my post 
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just tell her you'll kill yourself if she doesn't go out with you
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it may stand for Islamic Centre
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what ya mean here?
I meant approaching the brother instead of the parents regarding the girl in question. If we are talking Islamically, it would be acceptable to talk to the brother about her status. You would be surprised to find out how many brothers have been supportive of this pathway.
I am sorry for not being clear.
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IC ???
ps. thanks for liking my post :)**
IC= Islamic Center. Again, a great place to find someone who is religious and (at times) intelligent. Especially in the West, where many Muslims have adopted the ways of the societies.
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oh folks she left me bleeding.i made some fake business cards just for her which said that i am a fashion designer selling ladies garments because i did'nt want a negative response from her.i gave one to her, but i was so tense that i could 'nt get the converstion going for too long eventhough the response from her was pretty positive and i forget to tell her that she should call me.anyway i left feeling really good, i thought she was gonna give me a miss call atleast,but nothing happened,2 weeks went by.During that time i was stopping by at her workplace just to catch her again one more time,but she was no where to be find.i was thinking about her 24/7,and my heart was pounding.anyway I finally decided to contact her workplace through a lady friend,i was ready to send rishta and all,but i learned that she has left work and is now working outside the country.uff that was hard to take.but i am glad thats it over now and i can move on.its not that i was afraid of a no from her,but i wanted a response or an answer from her and waiting for that almost gave me a heart attack.
I just remember the first time i saw her,she was standing outside her workplace and was definitely checking me out giving me smiles while i was about to get in my car..i should've offered her a lift then...that occured to me a little bit late,by the time i made a u turn and came back to her place,she was gone in a cab.after that i talked to her a few more times in the bank and was perhaps a bit overcautious and let her slip in the end.
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Go upto her ask her for the number if she give it to you toh balay balay..
thapar maaray toh chup kar kay wahan say khisak lay ;)
I dont know why some guys are so afraid of asking Pakistani girls out :S its like if they ask them out they might just suddenly turn into fire breathing monsters :o
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oh folks she left me bleeding.i made some fake business cards just for her which said that i am a fashion designer selling ladies garments because i did'nt want a negative response from her.i gave one to her, but i was so tense that i could 'nt get the converstion going for too long eventhough the response from her was pretty positive and i forget to tell her that she should call me.anyway i left feeling really good, i thought she was gonna give me a miss call atleast,but nothing happened,2 weeks went by.During that time i was stopping by at her workplace just to catch her again one more time,but she was no where to be find.i was thinking about her 24/7,and my heart was pounding.anyway I finally decided to contact her workplace through a lady friend,i was ready to send rishta and all,but i learned that she has left work and is now working outside the country.uff that was hard to take.but i am glad thats it over now and i can move on.its not that i was afraid of a no from her,but i wanted a response or an answer from her and waiting for that almost gave me a heart attack. I just remember the first time i saw her,she was standing outside her workplace and was definitely checking me out giving me smiles while i was about to get in my car..i should've offered her a lift then...that occured to me a little bit late,by the time i made a u turn and came back to her place,she was gone in a cab.after that i talked to her a few more times in the bank and was perhaps a bit overcautious and let her slip in the end.
Awww :( its ok honey...
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You made a business card people asked you to ask her out for coffee, and you were opening a starbucks with her.
man, next time it happens, a cup of coffee after work approach is the best one …
a business card saying that you are a fashion designer selling ladies garment … where did you learn that trick from … a Tamil movie
Sorry .. just kidding .. feel bad for you
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brother, just for future reference, keep this designer bizness aside. you aint act like one
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Hey Majnoo let me play the dialog for you. I am very good at it.
You go to her business.
She says : Welcome to McDonald's how may I help you ?
You: Sure I lost my million dollars smile can you help me find it ?
She: OH O what happened ?
You: I am feeling vibes from a Pakistani girl but I am not sure. How do I find out.
She: Dude it is hard to find out what is in a Pakistani girls mind. Who are you interested in ?
You : Can't you tell ?
Now you have to do some work yourself should I write the whole filmi story for you ?
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i know it was not a good move to give her that card,i should have given her my original card.but with pakistani chicks especially if they are a hyper conservative type you can sometimes offend them if you come out openly as it has been my experience eventhough they might still want you.thats why i wanted to cover up for a negative reponse.anyway its all over now, shes gone.