so how do I move forward with this?

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Re: so how do I move forward with this?

@zobia

if you are really serious, then some how find out is she engage or not (through colleagues). and then talk to her parents.

-this “patana” way is not appropriate at all. you are actually lowering your own definition of love/like/respect (cuz later in life if you get some shaqi-mizaj biwi to wo itna pitai lageya gee ke )

-let say if you really really like her and you propose her and she also accepts it. then later in life you will always gonna suspect her character (as yesterday if it was me than tomorrow someone else)! in other words you gonna suspect your own love, your own character. so my fair suggestion find more about her, and Talk to her parents

ps. i showed you different picture because everyone else here has covered the simple straight forward strategies.

Excellent Advice! As muslims we should follow the right pathway in all aspects of our life.

I would also mention that approaching a brother might be easier especially if they are in the same age range.

At my IC, many such proposals are discussed and Ma’shallah a few weddings have resulted due to these Islamic methods.