So here is the situation.(only married ppl)

Monk · July 25, 2009, 3:47am

You get your wife belly button piercing. Life feels perfect…Seems like things can’t get any better…But she gains weight.. she become fat enough..

What you do..

1-leave piercing in there?
2-Ask her to get it removed(how the hell would you tell her…that why are you asking her to do so)
OR
3-you ask her to lose wight so thing appears back from belly button… like morning sun.

Mabrook · July 25, 2009, 4:04am

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lol. u get ur butt pierced.hisaab baraber lol

Monk · July 25, 2009, 4:06am

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Its a real life situation, I expect ppl to be more considerate…

zobia · July 25, 2009, 4:13am

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wow u got married…congratz.

Monk · July 25, 2009, 4:20am

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I will one day

libranrulz · July 25, 2009, 4:31am

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ask her to remove it and just tell her that u it might be painful and can be dangerous

Fbi786 · July 25, 2009, 4:38am

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why wud you get it pierced in the first place taa k yeh sittuation happen hi nah ho. kuch aur wala kaam kar lo

NaMaan · July 25, 2009, 4:42am

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tongue piercing ... to makeup for all the weight she gained ;)

Monk · July 25, 2009, 4:45am

Jokes aside.. even If my wife wears hijab..I am going to ask her to get one..u never know…she may agree…

Pagel log dekheen gy… My wife is going to kiss my kids.. so no piercing in tounge.

Fbi786 · July 25, 2009, 4:53am

yehh you never know, but as i wife i think she wudnt agree cos she d know what pain she l hav to go thru and what if the above sittuation arises. but yeh whats the harm, go for it lol

now lets say shes agreed, and this has happend, i think you shud ask her to get it removed and find an alternative destination for it lol or get it back when shes slimmed down and its comfortable for her .

Spock · July 25, 2009, 4:53am

You let her do what she wants.

Monk · July 25, 2009, 4:56am

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But what if she got it to make me happy, to begin with?

FBI
I don't think its haram??

Fbi786 · July 25, 2009, 5:00am

Personally i dunt think it wud come under haraam, but if its done to show off etc then yeh prolly, but since shes gonna be your wife and is gonna be wearing hijaab and this adornment is only for the happiness of herself and her and to please her husband, then i dunt think theres anything wrong about that, but it has to look cute lol choose a good spot lol if ya know what i mean haha

Monk · July 25, 2009, 5:07am

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Dude I am religious person... so its tummy... thats it!!

blackforest_360 · July 25, 2009, 5:56am

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it might look gross once she got pregnant, personal opinion.

Reha · July 25, 2009, 6:52am

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I have a belly piercing and I love it...I think they look awesome. And I doubt they would be haram because we pierce our ears and noses too. As long as you're not walking around showing it off...you're fine. I do know that if she got pregnant, she would have to remove it eventually.

If she gained weight and its causing her to look unattractive to you...make sure you marry someone you love enough to overlook that. PM, zindagi ka koi bharosa hai? Nahin. Allah na kare...hosakta hai apke saat koi aisi baat ho jiski vaja se aap pehle jaise na lagein. To kya hoga?

Women have kids, some lose the weight and some dont. Men go bald and develop the famous potbelly...some stay fit and some dont. Aise mein, you want someone who will look at you with the same eyes they did when you looked your best, right?

Support her, motivate her, help her do it and show her you care for her. When you do grocery shopping, make an effort to not bring things home that are fattening. Its really hard to lose weight for one partner if the other isnt involved. Take her to the gym with you, force her to take walks with you, get involved in couple sports, activities, go out more, etc. Subtly change your lifestyle.

Gaia · July 25, 2009, 11:46am

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I think a husband and wife should be close enough to tell eachother to look hot for one another, hence losing weight. Why shouldn't you be more attractive for one another?

And she isn't prego right now, so thats not the problem. But if she were, its common sense to take it out, uff!

Its only the two of you for the rest of your life, to hell ya, you have the right to tell eachother what to do. If he's balding, as PSQ said, then a wife has the right to tell him to shave his head. If he's gained weight, the wife has all the rights to tell him to lose it! And vice versa.

And wives should not be offended in anyway, because he clearly only wants to be attracted to her, so no need to make it a big deal. And plus, which girl feels beautiful when she's got a tummy hanging out, emm not many!

lady_lama · July 25, 2009, 1:08pm

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^ u go girl!!

AnGeL_EyEs · July 25, 2009, 2:23pm

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It only looks good on washboard abs. One day she will become pregnant with your child. Why ask her to go through it when she will have to take it off later on? get a clip on to satisfy your fetish :D

Malaikah · July 25, 2009, 4:19pm

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punchingmonkey....belly piercing looks good ..i love it....u got a nice taste :D.