you look up the person of interest and you see some activity that you don’t like, you see that on his facebook he “likes” magazine pics of skimpy dressed females…not one or two a lot of them…is this something that needs to be discussed or is this “normal” male activity…?
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hmmm... I would just be careful. Not reject the rishta because of it but I would try to see how his personality is. I mean, how would he react if u had liked a lot of half-naked male pics in magazine s
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you look up the person of interest and you see some activity that you don't like, you see that on his facebook he "likes" magazine pics of skimpy dressed females...not one or two a lot of them...is this something that needs to be discussed or is this "normal" male activity...?
Worry only if you are not the one going to wear skimpy clothes ever after marrying him.
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It is normal but if it really bothers u you should discuss it with him and then decide if u want to carry on with it.. (if it already niggles at u now prob after marriage it will bother u a lot more, also if he's one of those guys that loves checking out women wearing next to nothing whilst insisting u must cover up obviously that could also cause problems)..
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It can mean one of these three things:
1. He has not matured as yet to start a family.
2. He is too liberal and does not think it to be a big deal , but you think it is.
3. He is too dumb to understand that it is something he should take care of before he proposes to be married into a desi conservative family.
Your pick.
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^And none of those sound good.
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I probably wouldn't discuss it if the relationship hasn't progressed very far. But I wouldn't pursue the rishta.
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you look up the person of interest and you see some activity that you don't like, you see that on his facebook he "likes" magazine pics of skimpy dressed females...not one or two a lot of them...is this something that needs to be discussed or is this "normal" male activity...?
Personally, this wouldn't bother me but then again I'm pretty "liberal". I would see this as sign of him being immature. My SO and all his friends always check out "hot" women and comment on them....but none of them have "sexy" pics of random models/women in their FB profile. Seems like something a teenager would do.
But for you, I could recommend either not pursuing this rishta OR asking A LOT of detailed questions regarding his values/beliefs if you choose the pursue it. Obviously the guy thinks it's ok for him to have those pics up on his FB profile, and has no problem sharing it with his friends. And you're bothered by this. This already put the 2 of you at opposite ends when it comes to being "conservative"/"liberal". So you should be concerned about what other views of his will you strongly disagree with. You don't want to marry someone and then find out that he's waaaay more "liberal" compared to you and have it cause problems in the marriage.
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^ Right I think that's the thing. It's one thing to check out girls, which most guys do. It's another to proudly announce it on your FB profile. For me, it's a turn off. It would take a lot of charm in meeting him in person to off-set that.
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the guy does not seem to be matured and decent and ready to get married... you need to analyse his personality overall by judging the extent of dirtiness of his mind... try to encourage him to comment on women and how they look in particular dress... this way you will know whether his activities are just limited to fb or his actually HAS a dirty mind ;)
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Btw OP skimpy dressed women is nothing compared to what a lot of ppl look at.. Not saying it's wrong or right, just the reality..
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dont advise that! she will end up never having any ‘decent’ rishta… 
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So you mean to say that all guys are like that 
Hum jesi ‘decent’ larkion ka kia hoga kaalia 
Well all ‘decent’ guys try to look for SHAREEF girls for marriage… magar pehle apny ap ko tau sudhaaro… is qaabil tau bano k u get a shareef girl
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same is the case of every second girl , first deserve and then desire 
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same is the case of every second girl , first deserve and then desire :@:
Yup.. only half the proportion of girls have dirty minds.. whereas the proportion is 100% for guys... so these 100% guys look for that 50% of decent girl population when they decide to get married... but they shud be willing to accept if they stumble upon any creature from that 50% dirty mind girl population ;)
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**Yup.. only half the proportion of girls have dirty minds.. **whereas the proportion is 100% for guys... so these 100% guys look for that 50% of decent girl population when they decide to get married... but they shud be willing to accept if they stumble upon any creature from that 50% dirty mind girl population ;)
wow!! you going to get bashed by aunties i guess......why speak so bad of women?
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wow!! you going to get bashed by aunties i guess......why speak so bad of women?
Well gud and bad exist everywhere... Veena malik is a very appropriate recent example (in Bog Boss).. of course thats completely different kinda woman but still belongs to women specie :P
Well jokes apart, majority of the girl are decent and shareef so I definitely support my specie :) look at the glass half full... we girls are not THAT bad as you guys..
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He is healthy male . Go for it :k:
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yea…he is straight..you should be happy..
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Well gud and bad exist everywhere... Veena malik is a very appropriate recent example (in Bog Boss).. of course thats completely different kinda woman but still belongs to women specie :P
Well jokes apart, majority of the girl are decent and shareef so I definitely support my specie :) look at the glass half full... we girls are not THAT bad as you guys..
Good thing you clarified....or else
Guys are bad..why be with them?