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Good thing you clarified....or else Guys are bad..why be with them?
they are bad... but girls can 'tame' them :P Hum ache achoon ko seedha ker sakte hain... we are confident :P
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On the bright side, it wasn't pictures of scantily clad men.
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Well the thing thats confusing me is that his friends and family are aware of this activity, he's a part of a group on facebook which displays pics of everything from women to nature, to pics of anything but his activity is that he likes that scantily dressed females, and some of them have more clothes on than others not all of them are underdressed, his image is a little different he presented himself as very respectful but of course he's not going to come to a family gathering and stare the girl down, totally not the type of guy that would go home after seeing his rishta and that night click on seductive pics to "like"
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So I guess I don't know what does this reflect if anything at all...? Is it an over reaction? A "whatever" type of thing?
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yes....unless you are looking for an excuse to reject.......this is not something to base your opinion about someone's character..
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^i disagree. As others have said, it shows immaturity, carelessness and a lack of awareness that I find unappealing.
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well if she talked to some people around the guy n may be ask him directly all the concerns she will get a better idea......everyone has faults...just a facebook page to base your whole perception about a person is taking it a little too far..
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^ yeah you need to analyse his personality and behaviour in detail to know his general thinking about women, his level of respect for women etc etc
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I understand what you are saying. its a weird situation...cos obviously men like women...if you know what i mean...but then to 'openly' like pics/pages of women in a state of undress....hmmmm huge turn off to me...doesn't say much about his maturity to me x
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I would def be concerned about it. But if everything else seems fine, then i would reconsider because like somebody said nobody is perfect. Atleast he is honest and not hiding it but still i would be very concerned but if everything else seems fine then i wouldnt reject him based on this fact alone.
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well as odd as it might sound is that he was very respectful, in fact he looked at me very modestly...lowering his gaze when I looked up and all? i don't know anymore...overall I guess I don't him is where this is stemming from, I don't know if what I saw was normal behavior or something I should be cautious around.
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I think ure being a little immature, its just a facebook page, does he have porn on his profile?
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^immature? oookkk its just a question regarding someone you don't know very well, whats so immature about it?
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chill, immature isn't meant as an insult here. But yeah I would focus more on the way teh guy is in person since after all you'll be spending time wtih him in person.
however, if you get a bad vibe from this guy and this is just one of the things to make an excuse, then I wouldn't ignore your instincts.
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^ well yeah the only thing that I found a little mis matchy was his behavior in person and this semi dressed almost like its a passion like behavior online........i guess i'll just think about it and see how it goes..
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well not everybody "matches" online vs offline...be glad its just "liking" some things and nothing worse...
but again, trust your instincts.