So a Lady That Does "Halala"

Sara516 · April 24, 2012, 10:09pm

Re: So a Lady That Does “Halala”

I am sorry but if a recently married couple needs to watch porn to get aroused & THEN get in the act, they are most probably suffering from some serious psychological issues. I would rather not get into the details of why its sounds scary to me.

Me distancing my self from woman was not the fact that she was watching porn with her husband (hell who am I to judge, for all I know I might be committing bigger sins) It was the fact that she was talking to a then single girl & mind you that was our fourth meeting. Call me naive but back then I did not need to know that things like cucumber or hair brushes have more than one use (mods can edit my post if they want to) Neither did I need to know how good doing “it” feels. I might not be the most samajhdaar of people in my late teens or early twenty’s but someone coercing me into trying things with my fiance. I’ll rather keep my distance.

You haven’t met the couple in question so how can you assume that they are an otherwise “Parhezi” couple.

If you have read through all my replies you would know what I meant by a “Halala” in my thread & the fact that most women in our culture still don’t know that there is no such thing as “Halala” in Islam. Living out of wedlock is a completely different topic.

As X2 said knowing & doing something willingly vs not knowing & realizing you have committed a sin are things that are between that person & Allah.

What would your reaction be?

Oh dear that is…very strange and i don’t blame you in that case.