Re: So a Lady That Does “Halala”
Don’t know how I missed this yesterday. One does not have to be a religious person to know that a woman or even a man living out of wedlock with someone is considered a sin in almost all religions where as a woman doing a “Halala” is something that at least Muslims descending from South Asia don’t have proper knowledge about.
Its a complex issue among most Desi people, just like how we have the Zabihah Halal vs Halal debate or some other issues where people take different interpretation of the same religion based on the scholars they follow or the way they think. For some eating that Mcd’s Big Mac is as Haram as drinking alcohol or living with someone out of wedlock.
I completely agree with you about the fact that if in your views you do not look eye to eye on certain things with some people or their moral values don’t match with your’s you keep your distance with them. That’s the sane thing to do.
But what I still haven’t understood & thank you for even discussing this (its always a learning experience to know other people’s perspective)
What will anyone’s initial reaction be once they find out that the woman they are talking to has/had done a “Halala” in the past?