We all act accrding to our own moral compass - and while it isn’t my place to judge her, I do choose who has my respect according to what I value. The same way others look at me and are critical of me, the actions of others and my perception of those actions forms the basis of my opinion of them. I don’t know what this woman has been through and why she acted as she did and decided what she did, ultimately that’s between her and Allah.