It's interesting how b/c the girl is doing exacxtly what the guy is doing, instead of staying home and crying about it, she's still considered trash. Damned if you do damned if you don't.
Exactly my point. That's why I posted this topic to see what the majority say.
It seems that even the girls on this form (most) really do not care that the guy is doing the wrong. They just want the girl to sit in the corner depressed while the guy brings his mom a new slave.
Shame on (some girls) who support such behavior in the guy.
Guys - More shame on you but because your OWN PAKISTANI GIRLS are APPROVING THIS behavior in you then what can anyone else say.
Don't really know who is having the last cake. The virgin bride (since most Pakistani girls accept this behavior), the Hindu (or other cultural girl partner).
The guy for sure gets to eat the entire cake and not feel guilty about it.
Shame on all girls here who trashed the Hindu girls behavior. Imagine your own hubby playing with your mind. It would be a shame if you are among the "virgin bride" status - wouldn't it?
or are you among the believers that "hey at the end of the day he comes back home to me".
Just ewwww for ^ that type of wishful thinking.