Re: Smart Hindu girl
girl is an idiot. if she knows he is not gonna marry him then leave the *******. he already played with her emotions enough. and honestly you get nothing when all you do your entire life is to play with lives (first your own, and then others) cuz no one forced her to be in that relationship.
She does not know her future husband. It will be arranged so there is no question of love at this time. She is a girl of today generation who would not want to sit back crying. So if she wants to still be with the other guy then ....?
then she should say so.
Like this "I like this dude.. I want to hump him more...what is the harm??"
and NOT like this "bull**** bull**** bull*----girly emotional crap----bull----where would I find another hump so quick-----bull***"
see the difference??...
but since she is a girl.. and that too DESI I did not expect any thing better.
Serously what was God thinking when creating women???
PlayStation: all those ***** are S-h-y-t
Re: Smart Hindu girl
HOw is the guy going through agnoy when shes still around, doing you know what! True agnoy would be, to kick his cheap ass out, egg his car, and tell him Im getting married...........so.................SEE YAAA.
it will make NO difference to this guy..wo to bad mai shukar kare ga ke larki ne khud hi chor dia aur jan chuti :(
That seems about right to me. I don't see what you find smart in what she's doing.
Re: Smart Hindu girl
Man. What desi trash. Both the guy and the girl.
Re: Smart Hindu girl
I dont see why she is brave. I think she is being immature and emotional. Whats the point in being with someone when you know for sure its not going anywhere? Its just stupid and waste of time and energy.
Love aint everything, since she knows its not leading anywhere she should let him go.Life is short, one shouldent waste precious time on someone who aint even worth it. Who knows , maybe its someone better there out for her. The time she is wasting on him, that time she could have used on something else/someone else.
Re: Smart Hindu girl
It's interesting how b/c the girl is doing exacxtly what the guy is doing, instead of staying home and crying about it, she's still considered trash. Damned if you do damned if you don't.
There are umpteen topics on religious and cultural differences. Most of the time Pakistani guys go out with Hindu girls but never marry them. They bring a virgin from back home. Given this circumstance, the emotional situation is little different for someone I know.
One of my Hindu neighbor had been seeing a Pakistani guy for the past 5 years. She is now 22. By now she knows that the relationship will not develop into marriage because he always avoids the topic. He is 25.
She maintains that she too is kinda not looking forward to marry him anymore, especially because she realized that he does not want to committed to her. However, instead of getting all emotional and sit back and cry, she believe that she will just play with him for as long as he wants to but she just won't tell him.
I think it's good for her. She is brave!
She knows of her other firends in similar situation and that's why she has braved up emotionally. While she is willing to marry someone of her own cast, she will not tell him anything about it either. What do you guys think? Will this affect the guy's ego in anyway that she is willing to move on without notifying him officially? she says there is no need to since all Pakistani guys do the same. They go to Pakistan and cry an emotional river saying they were majboor because their mom forced them to.
What would be the Pakistani guys reaction? Positive? Negative? Will he move on without ego crush?
Good for her. Am sure his ego will be bruised but ppl who act this way need to be brought down a peg imo. I hate this mentality that certain girls are good enough to date/sleep with but not to marry. Oh, and these wimps who 'fear' their parents reactions, if they are that scared they can't/won't try and win their parents round (or they themselves don't particularly want to marry the girls anyway) they should not be getting into these relationships in the first place.
I couldn't care less about these guys reactions. If I was one of these girls (in the UK they tend to be white) I swear I would go upto the boy's house, knock on his door and tell his parents (who prob think of him as their little angel) exactly what he has been upto. Even better if it were possible would be to let the whole community know so the poor Muslim girl he could end up engaged to gets to know what a lowlife he is and his lack of loyalty and double standards when it comes to 'suitable' girls to marry.
It's interesting how b/c the girl is doing exacxtly what the guy is doing, instead of staying home and crying about it, she's still considered trash. Damned if you do damned if you don't.
Exactly my point. That's why I posted this topic to see what the majority say.
It seems that even the girls on this form (most) really do not care that the guy is doing the wrong. They just want the girl to sit in the corner depressed while the guy brings his mom a new slave.
Shame on (some girls) who support such behavior in the guy.
Guys - More shame on you but because your OWN PAKISTANI GIRLS are APPROVING THIS behavior in you then what can anyone else say.
Don't really know who is having the last cake. The virgin bride (since most Pakistani girls accept this behavior), the Hindu (or other cultural girl partner).
The guy for sure gets to eat the entire cake and not feel guilty about it.
Shame on all girls here who trashed the Hindu girls behavior. Imagine your own hubby playing with your mind. It would be a shame if you are among the "virgin bride" status - wouldn't it?
or are you among the believers that "hey at the end of the day he comes back home to me".
Just ewwww for ^ that type of wishful thinking.
girl is an idiot. if she knows he is not gonna marry him then leave the *******. he already played with her emotions enough. and honestly you get nothing when all you do your entire life is to play with lives (first your own, and then others) cuz no one forced her to be in that relationship.
what makes the girl an idiot?
If she wants him just for z*x then why do you consider her idiot?
Pakistani (since we are talking about Paki boyz only) do this all the time. So what if this time the girl wants to use him, then trash him just in time?
then she should say so.
Like this "I like this dude.. I want to hump him more...what is the harm??"
and NOT like this "bull**** bull**** bull*----girly emotional crap----bull----where would I find another hump so quick-----bull***"
see the difference??...
but since she is a girl.. and that too DESI I did not expect any thing better.
Serously what was God thinking when creating women???
PlayStation: all those ***** are S-h-y-t
No Paki guy ever starts a relationship telling the girl that he wants to just hump her, then why would you want the girl to say that?
Somewhere between your lines it seems that some of the ego is being crushed right here for bringing in the "humping factor" up front.
Those girls who were never accepted for marriage were NEVER told that they are being used only for humping - and then later on it will be dumping time.
:( buri baat hai - but it's the fact
Man. What desi trash. Both the guy and the girl.
could it be possible that the guy has made the situation to be trash?
Can we just blame the guy for once?
It's because of the guy the situation has turned to this - right?
That seems about right to me. I don't see what you find smart in what she's doing.
She's smart because she has let go of the "emotional attachment".
Usually it is the emotional attachment the drowns you when you are in love or a relationship. There are fears of losing your companion that you knew for so long.
She's smart because she is not holding up her life in sorrow.
She is smart because she has "accepted" that there is no future together.
She is smart because she will be the last one to eat the cake for not "carrying" on her past once she dumps him.
So she is definitely smart.
No Paki guy ever starts a relationship telling the girl that he wants to just hump her, then why would you want the girl to say that?
Somewhere between your lines it seems that some of the ego is being crushed right here for bringing in the "humping factor" up front.
Those girls who were never accepted for marriage were NEVER told that they are being used only for humping - and then later on it will be dumping time.
:( buri baat hai - but it's the fact
I am saying that when talking to her dudess(you) she should tell the truth.
Not some girly crap.
She can make guy into his boy-toy that don't matter. It annoys me how girls have find some right reasons even for some thing like hump.
I mean how hard it is to say "I luv humping"
She is not my friend (because of my marital status difference 
). She is my neighbor, loves my kids, and she is from a good family.
Anyway why should she revel her private matters to me or anybody? “Humping or not” - it’s just their business.
It’s easy for a guy to say what you said in quotes.
I know ehh.. I love when In life1 ppl learn some thing new so quick. which other wise , might take them year to see/learn.
U know nj since you are in psychology lets shed some light on perverted women.
Lets open a thread tomorrow. And talk.
I have been hearing crap about perv men all the time. Lets tell ppl how UNLIKE men perv women look and talk just like normal women.
Re: Smart Hindu girl
I still cannot see how she is 'smart'?
She is playing game, but how do we know he is not playing dead on purpose also?
Exactly my point. That's why I posted this topic to see what the majority say.
It seems that even the girls on this form (most) really do not care that the guy is doing the wrong. They just want the girl to sit in the corner depressed while the guy brings his mom a new slave.
Shame on (some girls) who support such behavior in the guy.
Guys - More shame on you but because your OWN PAKISTANI GIRLS are APPROVING THIS behavior in you then what can anyone else say.
Don't really know who is having the last cake. The virgin bride (since most Pakistani girls accept this behavior), the Hindu (or other cultural girl partner).
The guy for sure gets to eat the entire cake and not feel guilty about it.
Shame on all girls here who trashed the Hindu girls behavior. Imagine your own hubby playing with your mind. It would be a shame if you are among the "virgin bride" status - wouldn't it?
or are you among the believers that "hey at the end of the day he comes back home to me".
Just ewwww for ^ that type of wishful thinking.
Maybe I have a comprehension problem, but I don't see any of the girls or even the guys condoning this boy/man's behaviour. What everyone here has been saying is that it's a bit stupid of her to let him use her, when she knows that that is his only purpose. She doesn't come across as very smart to me. As I don't see the guy losing out on anything. And frankly I on't think he would care much if in the end she goes and marries someone else, because he's not concerned about owning her emotionally, he just wants to have easy sex and is getting it. So how is his ego going to get crushed?
Re: Smart Hindu girl
Its not brave or smart Masti...in any way.
The brave thing would be to leave now and let him see her happy with another man and a new life.
The cowardly thing to do is to lower your standards and be used for physical satisfaction because you love this person so much...you will go to any lengths to keep them.
This isnt bravado, its stupidity.
What would be the Pakistani guys reaction? Positive? Negative? Will he move on without ego crush?
Who knows? Why speculate on this?