Well you are kind right and kinda wrong. Some things are tolerated and some are not. Some rules have been bent and some have been broken. You are missing many things
However, to stay on topic
Ofcourse everybody has his/her own preferences. I have friends that weear sleeveless or things close to nothing . I couldnt care less. didnt I say: just my two cents
But about the only issue, I d say let it rest. Desi aunties have a habit of gossiping.
Some years ago my sister went out of town with permission. The same day mom received a phone call from an aunty she hardly talked to, with the news that sisterji was spotted in some other town. Mom told her to get lost . So bottom line, try not mind aunties. Try not to turn into something similar :biggthumb
Like momo said, Allah malik hai.
p.s. mom123, where the heck did you find this nick?
Some things are tolerated and some are not. Some rules have been bent and some have been broken. You are missing many things 
. I couldnt care less. didnt I say: just my two cents 