If your in a situation that you got married to a girl who actually dint have a bachelors degree but before marriage her parents told you that she had one. The girl after marriage told you that she got failed in some subjects ( at the end of her bachelors ) & she dint continued to pass them coz of certain problems & situations she was in, which are reasonable to some extent for her at least. What do you think the guy should do in this particular sitaution ?
What else!, talaq her man. I mean this is a big big deal.
Ok I hope you are not gonna take me seriously. I was just being sarcastic.
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please answer seriously ... what would you do in this situation ?
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If your in a situation that you got married to a girl who actually dint have a bachelors degree but before marriage her parents told you that she had one. The girl after marriage told you that she got failed in some subjects ( at the end of her bachelors ) & she dint continued to pass them coz of certain problems & situations she was in, which are reasonable to some extent for her at least. What do you think the guy should do in this particular sitaution ?
According to me, a good husband will help her complete her studies if she wishes to.
Ask her, if she is interested, Be Supportive!!
What else!, talaq her man. I mean this is a big big deal.
Ok I hope you are not gonna take me seriously. I was just being sarcastic.
Hahahahhahahhaha TLK you are just so so phunny!!
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sue her parents for lying to you...you need to collect some extra jahez...they have a weak position to be in in legal terms. sue them, man! :)
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If she lied..there has to be a reason. And even not..i would look over that fact and help her finish her studies. Life is way complicated as it is..
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^yeh hui na baat baabay :D
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Well she never lied, her parents did. She actually told him the truth. More brownie points for her.
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Well she never lied, her parents did. She actually told him the truth. More brownie points for her.
What if she lied too or dint tell him on purpose coz she never wanted this suitable rishta, as she wanted, to go away.
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Bhai poori situation aik sath kyun nahin bata dete? 
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If she lied..there has to be a reason. And even not..i would look over that fact and help her finish her studies. Life is way complicated as it is..
She lied because she never ever wanted to ruin this rishta to whom she is married now & she really dint want to continue her studies as a matter of fact. Yes, for her it was complicated...
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In a situation like you mentioned it wouldn't bother me at all.
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I don't think it matters...there are bigger issues in life. Agar degree hoti to kya karlete uska? Kabab bana ke khilati kya? Get over it please.
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If a girl can lie to you to keep you around, she can lie again to do the same. It was a means to an end. Trust is the most fundamental element of any relationship including marriage.
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Okay alot of girls get maried before completing their studies! why are u making it a big deal just cos she lied! i know lying part is bad but u cant undo anything now can u ? Move on n get over it please!
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One more thing...if you're considering leaving her over this...you're probably going to leave her anyway for something else big or small. It seems like you're not happy with her and want to find a reason to walk away. Unless you are finding her to be mentally behind or just not at the same comprehension level as you (and even then, she can go to school)...this is not a good reason for a divorce.
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Lie is a lie . You lose trust with it . Its not matter of getting a job or not . I think its time for her + parents, to work their tail off to regain that trust .
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If a girl can lie to you to keep you around, she can lie again to do the same. It was a means to an end. Trust is the most fundamental element of any relationship including marriage.
Lie is a lie . You lose trust with it . Its not matter of getting a job or not . I think its time for her + parents, to work their tail off to regain that trust .
Why when a girl lies, its a trust issue and when a guy lies, its like "so what a big deal yar, get over it??" So double standards!!
What if the girl wants to get khula from a Man who just couldn't complete his studies and would tell her after marriage? People would say..........haw.......haaye.....dekho to she is leaving him over a minor tiny issue!!
In fact, I have seen the cases where the guy reveals to his wife that he was actually married before and already have a baby boy or girl OR two kids!! Then a girl is expected to take wise steps and save her marriage?? And lot of girls actually DO that!!
So irritating!!
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How're people saying that it's okay to be deceitful about your degree. Ladies, turn the tables and picture your husband after marriage saying,'oh btw, I dropped out of Uni midway because of xyz.' I can imagine the uproar then. This would break trust big time in the marriage. That's not the same as saying you should divorce!
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How're people saying that it's okay to be deceitful about your degree. Ladies, turn the tables and picture your husband after marriage saying,'oh btw, I dropped out of Uni midway because of xyz.' I can imagine the uproar then. This would break trust big time in the marriage. That's not the same as saying you should divorce!
because the issue is different here. The guy didn't "discover" himself that she didn't complete her studies, its the girl who told him herself that she couldn't get it and even told her the reasons!! I guess, it should be appreciated, that she couldn't keep it a secret from her husband and felt necessary to tell him at the initial stage about the truth.
I would judge it as a trust issue if she never told him about it and he would discover himself!!