Situation Getting Worse Need Advice Desperately

Theorist · November 13, 2015, 4:01pm

Re: Situation Getting Worse Need Advice Desperately

I think probably they do. But there’s no point in me bringing that up because he obviously agrees with them and would just say that everyone feels the same way about me and I should think about why that is. I don’t think I should confront anyone else about this either because I don’t have proof if it. This is just my suspicion.

@Reha Thank you for your advice. I think I need to think things through and try and pinpoint the actual problem here. You’re right about the communication thing but if I leave it and don’t talk to him it’ll just get worse. I had another chat with him and that didn’t end well either.

@Theorist I get what you’re saying but like other posters have said its not that strange. He started sleeping in the spare room because of the baby and our toddler waking up through the night. And if he doesn’t sleep well then he doesn’t have a good day at work. Plus surely we should be trying to fix the minor issues first before tackling the big one? I mean** he doesn’t want any physical touch at all. No hugs, no hand holding, no kisses. If there isn’t any of that then how can anyone expect intimacy?**

Was he always like this?