Well said! I feel like there should be a college course called Marriage 101 and getting this right should be made mandatory. Of course, if only half the people got this right we wouldn’t see so many divorces for the stupidest reasons. We see some people who understand this and get abused by manipulative spouses who don’t understand this concept. If everyone understood this, we wouldn’t have people taking advantage of each other. Less ego, less struggles, less compromises, less of everything that results in a divorce. For this to be successful, both parties must understand this.