Sister trouble need advise :(

Re: Sister trouble need advise :(

We can all speculate as much as we want here. It is quite possible that the happy couple is HAPPY...just the way they are, without kids and the responsibility, cost and time that kids consume. WELL worth it IMHO. but thats ME, its not everyone!

Its ALSO quite possible that they face fertility probs and if so, all the more power to them for keeping it all to themselves. Once I leaked out MY fertility probs, its was like it went out over some broadcast that was listened to from every corner of the planet... resulting in un-asked for advice and recommendations that included everything from how we should have sex to where we should adopt kids from, what foods I (or Hubby) should eat to get fertility back...I mean SHEESH man....How I WISH I had never said a word! It did nothing but make a bad situation worse. I said a couple of times before that at one point, I was going to enlarge my hubby's semen analysis results to poster-size and plant it in my front yard. Just to shut em all up. It gets to be too much yeah?

My advice? LEAVE THEM ALONE, let them find their happiness in their own way, whatever that may be. And congratulate them for it,,,,whether it includes kids or not.