Sister trouble need advise :(

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Re: Sister trouble need advise :(

koi baat naheen
choty sy dimagh per ziada zoor mat do
ser dukh jay ga

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LOL
True he is yet to see many more.

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Mein apke senseless post ki baat karrahi hoon...na sar na peir...just posting for the sake of posting.

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a little too much here geezer with the gene pool and all. how about we play a little nice? :)

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Re: Sister trouble need advise :(

what if there is another problem that she cant really discuss?
I think instead of pressuring her, just support her, I mean you say she loves kids and all... maybe nudge that if there is a problem she can go to the doctor or something...and if she cant have kids then there are SO many other options, you really have to do ur research and all...

but first try to find out why she doesnt want to have kids, dont ASK her to have kids, just found out why she doesnt want to

then you can work from there

I have an aunt...and she had kids twice, both died before their 2nd birthdays, then she got pregenent again and had a miscarriage...and she wants to have kids so bad but theirs always this problem...so try to find out what the problem is

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Re: Sister trouble need advise :(

We can all speculate as much as we want here. It is quite possible that the happy couple is HAPPY...just the way they are, without kids and the responsibility, cost and time that kids consume. WELL worth it IMHO. but thats ME, its not everyone!

Its ALSO quite possible that they face fertility probs and if so, all the more power to them for keeping it all to themselves. Once I leaked out MY fertility probs, its was like it went out over some broadcast that was listened to from every corner of the planet... resulting in un-asked for advice and recommendations that included everything from how we should have sex to where we should adopt kids from, what foods I (or Hubby) should eat to get fertility back...I mean SHEESH man....How I WISH I had never said a word! It did nothing but make a bad situation worse. I said a couple of times before that at one point, I was going to enlarge my hubby's semen analysis results to poster-size and plant it in my front yard. Just to shut em all up. It gets to be too much yeah?

My advice? LEAVE THEM ALONE, let them find their happiness in their own way, whatever that may be. And congratulate them for it,,,,whether it includes kids or not.

Unplugged With Guppies — muqawwee123
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My advice? LEAVE THEM ALONE, let them find their happiness in their own way, whatever that may be. And congratulate them for it,,,,whether it includes kids or not.
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Agreed you should leave them alone .

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Re: Sister trouble need advise :(

I mean in the end it is her decsion, some people dont want kids, but it doesnt mean theres somthin wrong with her.
There could be a problem with the guys sperm count, many athletes have this problem, they might have had injurys which can cause low sperm count
Also she might not like to talk about it b/c its a personal private matter, it can be due to many reason, she may not feel comfortable talking about her sex life. Their a couple, it should stay b/w them, no one should pressure them

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Re: Sister trouble need advise :(

what makes you think she cant have kids? maybe she just doesnt want them right now...maybe she just doesnt want them at all? besides nowadays women are having kids well into their 40s (at least here in the states).

anyway this is something personal between her and her hubby.... they are two adults more then capable of making their own decisions.

lastly, no two men are alike....just because your uncle took on a second wife does not mean that your BIL will do the same.

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I disagree with most people here who say leave her alone, being a desi, it is the mom's and families RIGHT to know when she will have kids. They should demand that these two make babies right now, in fact, I think your mom should show up at their house and start explaining how to make kids.

Jeeez freaking louise, why can't desi families just mind their own effing business. Maybe they are having issues but since that isn't the family's business they're not saying anything, maybe they don't want kids, maybe they've tried and failed, just leave it the eff alone, damn desi families.

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Aww you’re such a newbie :hugz:

whom can I call "jaan" ?
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thanks to everyone who hav given me advise i really appriciate it.....i know how it feels when sumone talks bout ur personal life.u know desi families.dats why i just wantd sum advised thats all......thanks guys :biggthumb

Timepass-July 2012