Sister-in-laws

Dushwari · November 21, 2006, 9:45am

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lahore,

hope u do not believe in this.

Dushwari · November 21, 2006, 9:47am

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those who are miserable, will stay so until of their own volition, they begin to form a trust worthy relation.

so no worries.

han, probs will arise, if u will act just as snappy.

so avoid it.

u are doing the right thing.

Chameli420:

I have 1 sil and well since we got married she has been very quiet but in the period our rishta thing was going on and later when we were engaged she was very much in the centre and wanted to take over the control from her family's side and behaved very werid and rude with me.

However she has only met us a few times since we came back from our honeymoon . She doesnt call me so I assume that either she is busy or she doesnt want to disturb the newly wed couple or maybe she just doesnt want to talk to me. But I found out that she emailed her bro namely my husband about stuff that she wants to convince him to and that she knew that I wasnt very willing to do ...so I found that being a little too much..though I havent said anything to my husband and since he valued my opinion in that case as it was our private matter I didnt find any reason to argue on what she had said/done...

I dont know how to handle her cuz I mostly feel that something is going on in her mind and she has hidden agenda with things she do or say to me so I have actually not done quiet much to keep in touch with her and I do worry about my husband's thoughts on this and me. But I dont know how to cope with the feeling of uncertainty when I talk to her so I feel better off when I am silent.

decent_Felow · November 21, 2006, 10:01am

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hmmmmm

i totally agree with dushii point of view :)

Chameli420 · November 21, 2006, 10:26am

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cud u elaborate more on this plz?

Mrs.Shikra · November 21, 2006, 8:55pm

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I only have one n shes a sweet heart..she is only 15 years old n she is very cute bachi....Allah ka shukar hai i have no problems with her and i always pray to Allah that our relationship stays like this forever.