ive got a good relationship with both my bhabhi and nand... Alhamdulillah :) my nand is a bit older and wiser than me so i can go to her if i need advice on bubz.. and my bhabhi just had a babloo of her own so we have lots to talk about.... besides that, my bhabhi is my cousin, so we get along pretty well neways... (not that cousins get along more... just we were close before my bro and her got married.. so it worked out)
really? actually my lil sister has changed heaps since my bhabhi came... she's very good with kids.. i think i may have to call her over to my place to help me out!
Not really. It depends on every family, every person is different. Whenever we visit my brother and his family, i dont cook and clean or take care of the babY (thats ammi's job :D) but i certainly do not make her wait on me and whatever I want to eat, i make it myself. Then theres the SIL's who make u wait on em hand and foot, not speaking persoanlly but u cant just say all SILs are a gift :)
thanks for starting thsi thread. it is a v. nice topic, & is much needed to be discussed, to awaken women from the slumber of self-deception, family fueds and ignorance. women must be one with other women. sister/s-in-law must be like one's own sister/s. otherwise, one is not a good woman - simple as that.
My two SIL are extremely worst for me and the rest are just ok, the second one is like she is out of control, she says whatever she wants even in front of her brother(my hubby) and that makes me more angry but my hubby said she is illmannered she is wrong lets leave her, don't try to ruined your personality.
She trys to interfere in my matters from the beginings, now my hubby told me do what ever you want nobady interfere your matter, so now I avoid her but still she wants to know each and everything related to me.
It could be worse, and you could live with her. If its just snide remarks that you have to put up with, then in one ear and out the other. At least you weren't the wife that got strangled by her husband in Germany apparently.