So, I know a lot of single girls who are looking for potential suitors.
The thing is, when you know arranged marriage is not for you…what are your options?
What other ways can you meet people?
And MEN…do you find it okay for a girl to approach YOU as opposed to you approaching THEM?
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If girls are too shy to approach us , then at least she should give us a hint . Means come on , we don’t have 10 eyes and 10 ears to notice each and everyone of you . It takes two to clap 
Reha congrats 
. . . and how was the crowed
If girls are too shy to approach us , then at least she should give us a hint .
exactly .. jaise shaa'ir ne kahaa hai
aankhon hee annkhon main ishara ho gayaa
bethay bethay jeenay ka sahara ho gayaa
Why the sudden topic
dont think a normal guy would mind
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even if she can not approach coz of shyness, she should follow
kuch bhee na kaha aur keh bhee gaeey
path. Men are good at catching signals ..... alright wrong signals too.
btw, what is considered as "arranged marriage"? It is lack of dating? or absence of staying out together late nights? or what? I mean what if, you parents find one for you, your interact with her/him and you like him/her to get married, is this also an "arranged" marriage? How will you figure out this is not for you?
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what do you mean by approaching?
i don't think there's any rule here - follow your instinct simply
if there's someone you like, be open with those vibes. i mean, don't make it obvious, but don't hide it either
if you are desperate to take it further, make a move. if you're not, let them make the move.
ta daaaaaa
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I sometimes read stuff, peoples' exp etc and think it'd be SO simpler if girls gave more signals or hints if they like a guy too.
Bass aise hi socha poochloon…apko kya takleef hai? 
What kind of signals? Like ankh marna or a smile or what? 
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Hai, ab kya kar lain gee aap? 
You know what I meant 
^That’s toooo subtle. Take a cue from Lady Llama’s thread. Write him a letter in blood.
Mein apko ban karsakti hoon!
Im serious! I want to give out nice signals…not just snobby signals and I also want to be able to impart divine man-knowledge when my friends ask for it.
Yikesssssssssssssss…sounds so creepy! 
Or maybe call him 200 times a day at 15 minute intervals? That might work too? 
^Ask him how he thinks his last name tacked after your first name would sound. …that might work.
And MEN...do you find it okay for a girl to approach YOU as opposed to you approaching THEM?
I wouldn't like it if a girl approaches me unless we know each other very well.
I think it would make her look cheap. i don't know how others think.
Ban…moi?
Id like to see you try I can ban you too 
As for signals ab mai kya kahun!
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Most of the girls I know who've had love marriages met their other halves at uni.. I know two who literally saw their guys on the street.. like a beautiful stranger.. my experience was a bit like that as well :)
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Pakistani Boys and Girls have a long way to go when it comes to "Breaking the Ice".
You know that is not a bad idea AT ALLLLL!
Why Scarface? Larkiyon ki feelings nahin hoti hein kya? Agar vo banday ko approach karein kyun ke vo unko acha lagta hai…then its cheap of them? Why?
Shakky, you can NOT ban me. Karke dekho.
Ki matbal? Signals chahiye hein! Abhi! At least I should be able to recognize them!
I know…tell me about it. 
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Ay kya bolti tu ? 
Why Scarface? Larkiyon ki feelings nahin hoti hein kya? Agar vo banday ko approach karein kyun ke vo unko acha lagta hai...then its cheap of them? Why?
I don't know, it's just my personal choice. Maybe I need to clear my head on this one :)
But I would want to see how others think about it, maybe I'll start a new thread with this question.
I don't know, it's just my personal choice. Maybe I need to clear my head on this one :)
But I would want to see how others think about it, maybe I'll start a new thread with this question.
Most guys would vouch with that, i.e. they do not like it and find it cheap, but personally I think a woman should be expressive. Atually, that's one of the distinctions they have, over men; being better in expressing themselves. Why should they be masking one of their greatest qualities?