Re: Sincere People
Actually no, in my case I made sure that the guy was not a workaholic and did not work late hours to get ahead etc. I wanted an educated man with a masters degree but not someone who scrimped on family life just to get ahead. I was prepared to live on less but wanted more family time And I was the same way with myself. Even though I was in middle management, I did not want to switch family life for promotions so it’s ok to make sure you get a spouse who’s on the same page. Of course it’s ok if both partners want to spend long hours at work trying to excel in their profession, but it works if both are on the same page.
And regarding people who want their spouse to work, sure it’s their right, but they should make use to marry someone on the same page. There are men who don’t care either way, and there are many women who would be their ideal. Also, regarding goras, they also are not forced to live with extended families and cook for them, nor provide dowries and phenawy joras. If they decide to live with in laws it’s a joint decision and neither is the gora’s wife supposed to be 100% in charge of cooking despite working as many hours as the husband because this is what we do.