Even down to sincere people who are Pakistani, will they marry for money and financial convenience over true love?
If you’re a working woman, do you often wonder if a guy is talking to you because he thinks he will be financially more secure with you?
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I am a very sincere person. So no i would never consider pay and salary. How much do you make annually PCG?
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el oh el
not enough man, i'm just a lowly nobody.
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I am also a sincere person. I am very sincere to myself.
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Yes, when I was single, I always made if clear that I may not work after marriage.
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^ No one has a problem with that, every guy would LOVE for his woman not be out there in the big bad world.
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Sincerity and True love , not related.
^ No one has a problem with that, every guy would LOVE for his woman not be out there in the big bad world.
Dunno about that, I think all women in my family, not just my wife should make a difference in the world and:or be intellectually fulfilled whether it is due to a career, social work, or personal projects and interests. Most of it would require them to be out there in the big bad world to some extent. Plus they are fully capable of it. In one aspect or another, or all, they can run circles around me.
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Gosh, some people ran away after I said that because " America main to dono ok kamana parta hay". But at least this would weed out people who would be after me for financial security. Someone I know is a huge career oriented person who has no intention giving up her career, but she always makes it clear that working or not working should be her choice, not that " tum bhi kamo ge toh ghar chaly ga". She actually gave up a cardiologist rishta because he said he wanted a professional woman.
^ No one has a problem with that, every guy would LOVE for his woman not be out there in the big bad world.
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Women dig insecurities ... Jeez
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Why are dome working women so big headed with their job and income .
If a guy is interested in a womans's money..he can also be after a girl with a rich father...
We live in a modern world where women are now educated and earn their own money, however i think it will take a long time for desi women to accept the fact that it is normal to share financial cost with your partner if you decide to work... At the end of the day,it is the household and your life style that will benefit from the extra income you earn...
I have never heard my english female colleagues having this insecurities...it is always the asians females...
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^ No one has a problem with that, every guy would LOVE for his woman not be out there in the big bad world.
lot of guys themselves or their families have a problem with that. there are many who want their wives to work, some for the sole reason of making more money and some for the status quo (happened with my cousin).
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Even down to sincere people who are Pakistani, will they marry for money and financial convenience over true love?
If you're a working woman, do you often wonder if a guy is talking to you because he thinks he will be financially more secure with you?
i would say no. If someone is sincere and find the true love or love someone truly then they would chose love over financial security.
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Coz love is overrated.
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my love for you is true PCG 
… will not marry you for your money, my love is true …
how much money you have between? …
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guessing the new scenario of the next thread.
will you marry a guy whose sister drives her own car
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^ hahahahaa 
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PCG your experiences are vulnerable
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Goras also don't put emphasis on what profession their wife has. Whatever the profession, the wife contributes according to their pay check. No gora openly advertises on dating websites "only doctors, engineers and MBAs need to apply". Also no gori wife needs to worry that their hard earned money is going towards phenawani to the susral, for show off reasons only while she can't give the same to her own family for the same purpose.
Why are dome working women so big headed with their job and income .
If a guy is interested in a womans's money..he can also be after a girl with a rich father...
We live in a modern world where women are now educated and earn their own money, however i think it will take a long time for desi women to accept the fact that it is normal to share financial cost with your partner if you decide to work... At the end of the day,it is the household and your life style that will benefit from the extra income you earn...
I have never heard my english female colleagues having this insecurities...it is always the asians females...
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Why not..in my surrounding men openly mention wife profession..whether they are english or desi.
What is wrong with a man being proud of his wife profession if by any chance it is higher than his.
The dating site for rishtas is wrong overall...no argument here from me
And i dont see what isthe big deal with helping the spouse's parents.tgey are elders and it is the younger working class who should look after them. Sensible couple would help both parents or the parents in most need .
It is ok for a wife to expect husband to Assist her parents when in need but it is a crime for husband to expect wife to assist his parents?i say this is very close minded thoughts!
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