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Re: sincere advice

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But why you keep rank non-physical offenses as somehow less terrible?? Beating is worse than cheating? We have arbitrary scales of ‘‘how bad’’ , don’t we??

Everyone has their own scale. I don’t understanding why people try to push their personal scale as right, and everyone else’s as wrong? Doesn’t that sound a bit ‘‘molvi’ish’’ to you??

But they did not have a relationship! if they both were emotionally vested in the relationship then it would certainly be very wrong of her to do this. Signing nikaah papers doesn’t automatically make you fall in love with someone. It requires interaction and communication, which did not happen because the guy left the country.

What’s molvi’ish is you trying to make it acceptable if the guy beat her for it! Yeah, maybe it would be a bit acceptable if they had some sort of a relationship but they didn’t!!! That’s the whole point. That’s what left a lot of room for error.